A few months ago, I was at an attractive event in Delhi, surrounded by elegantly dressed, articulate Indians and a sprinkling of foreigners. Into this privileged gathering walked an awkward young man who someone recognized from Hindi television. He seemed to be lost and was mostly ignored until someone provoked him and there followed a loud, ugly argument over the JNU controversy. He put up a spirited defence of the Hindu nationalist position but he was quickly shouted down. He felt humiliated and left hurriedly.

મારા મિત્રો મને કહે છે કે પ્રસન્નતા 'આંતરીક બાબત છે' અને જીવન પ્રત્યેના મારા અભિગમ સાથે તેનો સંબંધ છે. તેઓ મને જીવનની ગતિ ધીમી કરવાની તથા યોગ-ધ્યાન શીખવાની, હસતા રહેવાની અને ઈશ્વરમાં ભરોસો રાખવાની સલાહ આપે છે. પ્રકારની આધ્યાત્મિક વાતો આમ તો મને ગંભીર બનાવી દે છે. મને કાયમ લાગ્યું છે કે મારા જીવનનો આનંદ રોજબરોજની નાની બાબતોમાં રહેલો છે. પોતાના કામમાં ડૂબી જવું, કોઈ મિત્રની સાથે ગપશપ કરવી અથવા તો અચાનક સુંદરતાનો સાક્ષાત્કાર થવો વિગેરે. ખરો આનંદ કે ખુશી ક્ષણે છે. કોઈ દૂરના અલૌકિક જીવનમાં નહીં.

மகிழ்ச்சி என்பது உள்ளுக்குள்ளிருந்து வரவேண்டும் என்று நண்பர்கள் கூறுகின்றனர்; அதனால் வாழ்க்கை பற்றிய என்னுடைய கண்ணோட்டத்தையே மாற்றிக்கொள்ள வேண்டிய நிலையில் இருக்கிறேன். என்னைப் பொருத்தவரை மகிழ்ச்சி என்பது சின்னச்சின்ன விஷயங்களில்தான் இருக்கிறது. நண்பனுடன் சேர்ந்து சிரிப்பது, அழகான எதையாவது பார்ப்பது என்று.

My friends tell me that happiness is an ‘inside job’ and entails changing my attitude to life. They ask me to slow down, do yoga, learn to meditate, smile a lot and think of God. This spiritual talk usually leaves me feeling grim and inadequate. I have found instead that happiness lies in the small, everydayness of life — in getting absorbed in my work, laughing with a friend, stumbling onto something beautiful. It seems to be here and now, not in a distant afterlife. I could be wrong, of course, as I have not experienced the afterlife.